The pretty girls got married and are still in my hometown. The true nerds majored in biology or engineering with mostly male counterparts, and got married to one of them. They continue the status quo and find a dearth of women behind them. They are the ones still wearing jeans, t-shirts and ponytails. They are still reading fantasy science fiction and still rocking the code. Old School. These were the women who were always comfortable with being a nerd, and being immersed in tech. Being a nerd was not always cool, especially if you were pretty, or an art chick.
The cool art girls who are smart in a feminist way are the ones who are still in the world doing art, being smart, being feminist and realizing that they need to change their knowledge base to keep up. And aren't sure how to do it.